Relationships on the Spiritual Path – Beyond the Human Story

This week, I felt called to speak about a topic that comes up again and again—in our small group sessions, in private questions, and in life itself: relationships.

Not just romantic partnerships, but especially what it means to have a partner when you are on a spiritual journey.

Many people tell me they want a partner who is “on the same path,” who meditates, who understands the inner work, or at least is open to these conversations. And often, when we grow and change, the question arises: "If I’m transforming, what if my partner no longer fits?”

These are valid questions, but they invite us to look deeper—beyond preferences, beyond the human checklist of who we think we should be with.

The Soul’s Agreements

Before we incarnate, our soul chooses certain life experiences. The level of choice we have depends on our soul’s level of consciousness and how many times we’ve incarnated before. We choose our family, our environment, even the era and the country we will be born into.

And just like we choose our family, we also choose—at least in potential—the important relationships we will have.

Some partners will be destined to appear, sometimes more than one over a lifetime, and the nature of those relationships may vary greatly.

From a higher perspective, there are no “random” encounters. Everyone who enters your life has a role to play in your unfolding.

Breaking Free from Conditioning

While these soul agreements exist, much of our human relationship experience is shaped by conditioning—cultural patterns, ancestral energy, and old karmic imprints. Ideas like “you must marry” or “you must have children” are not universal truths, but inherited beliefs.

The spiritual journey helps us loosen those patterns so we can choose from a space of freedom—aligned with our own highest truth, rather than the weight of past conditioning.

The Role a Partner Plays

Not all partners will walk the spiritual path with you in the way you imagine.

A partner might meditate with you and understand your inner world deeply.

Or, they may not be “spiritual” at all—yet still hold a steady, grounded space for your transformation.

Some partners act as mirrors, reflecting our unhealed wounds so they can rise to the surface. Some may trigger us deeply—not to harm, but to catalyze change. Others may inspire us to break free from low-vibrational patterns entirely.

When you meet someone and feel an instant familiarity, it’s often because you’ve known each other on a soul level before. That recognition is real, and it can be part of why the connection is significant for your growth.

Beyond the Honeymoon Phase

Many of us seek a partner to fill a feeling of lack—whether it’s wanting love, companionship, security, or the dream of a shared life. But when the initial excitement fades, that inner lack often resurfaces—unless we’ve healed it at the root.

The most empowering place to begin a relationship is not from need, but from wholeness—where you already feel complete in yourself. From there, your partner is not filling a void, but adding richness to a life that is already full.

My Guidance for Calling in the Right Partner

If you’re seeking a partner, don’t just ask for someone “spiritual.”

Instead, open your heart and ask for the person (or people) who are for your highest good—those who will help you grow, support your journey, and align with your soul’s truth.

Praying or setting the intention is a way of making this request energetically known. Then, stay open and receptive. The right people arrive at the right time.

Remember

No one enters your life by accident. Some are here briefly, some stay for many years, but all play a role in your evolution.

So, instead of trying to control who or how it should be, allow life to introduce you to the ones meant for you—and trust that they arrive not only for love and joy, but also for your soul’s awakening.

Love, Eva

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